Human Connection in the Age of Identity Politics
This post is inspired by Boris, a subscriber with a few criticisms of The Reformers that sent me spiralling into avenues of related thought. Boris, who has spent a lot of time thinking about the series, didn’t like aspects of my portrayal of the hoax artists.
… the authors of the hoax are being shown in a bad light. They are being shown ridiculing the “victims” of woke ideology, laughing at the absurdity of their positions and scholarship.
… to make any progress against this woke ideology, it is important that at least some members of the minorities being “valorized/protected” by the woke ideology must themselves visibly reject it. This work (this video, or this hoax) can help advance that, but not if it is ridiculing those people (i.e. women, racial “minorities,” gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, trans-, polyamorous... etc.), as was repeatedly done by James and Peter in the earlier video segments.
I replied…
When you say I show Peter and James ridiculing "... women, racial “minorities,” gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, trans-, polyamorous... etc.", I think you've missed a lot of nuance. I've never seen them ridicule those identities for its own sake, but I've never seen them give someone a pass for their character or beliefs if they happen to fall into one of those categories. An important distinction.
If they're poking fun at the identities you mention, it's with a more rounded view of identity, where someone can have one or more of these immutable characteristics and also be part of a self-important moral vanguard deserving of ridicule.
*Check the comments from retrocycler in The Reformers Part Four post for the full context. I have heavily simplified his critique with these excerpts and Boris seems like a thoughtful person.
Since the exchange, I’ve been thinking about his view that mocking ideas related to certain groups can be seen as disrespectful, and alienate the people who could very effectively convince the lay public that those ideas are destructive for all involved. There’s validity to this idea if you view filmmaking as a technological process; a means to producing a desired political effect. But I wanted The Reformers to be an artistic protest against propaganda that purposely let it all hang out. Inside the film, I expose our propaganda effort to shape the minds of the public, but the film itself is a collection of minimally curated experiences and observations I had across the project. I did this in hope the audience would make up their own minds on what we did. Internet-savvy people have a way of cutting through heavily curated PR campaigns and I want an internet-savvy audience so I try to let it all hang out.
If Boris was referring to this scene where James and I laugh hysterically at the satirical biographies Peter wrote up for their fake research institutes, he isn’t alone.
The scene seems to have split audiences, some laugh along with us, while others tell me it made them feel uncomfortable. The reason Jim and I laughed so hysterically was that the whole thing was “So Pete”. The purpose of creating research institutes was to give validity to the fake names on hoax papers and subdue the suspicions of any journal editor that investigated those names. Peter’s decision to make the fake identities over-the-top parodies of his coworkers was an unnecessarily brash, and very ‘Pete’ thing to do.
Putting this nuanced context aside, I still find the biographies funny on a basic satirical level. From any reasonable vantage point, you have to concede that the people we’re making fun of hold vast amounts of power in the Western world. They occupy high-paying positions at prestigious institutions and simply offending them could be grounds for exile.
I understand that historical discrimination plays into people’s perception that we’re punching down but at what point do we look at the real world around us and update our understanding of the power dynamics at play? Would people feel uncomfortable if we were laughing at a parody of an arguably less powerful businessman or bible belt politician?
The fact none of this adds up when scrutinised from a common sense perspective reveals how effective the propaganda effort of the equity movement has been. There now exists a social expectation that we subordinate our natural free-flowing social instincts to a political enterprise devised in far flung academic halls. From the Identitarian perspective, when we contort our social instincts to fit their theory we’re rectifying enduring patterns of historical discrimination. I would argue this is grounded in a cynical view of who we are as human beings and when we look at each other through their ideological prism we reintroduce the categories that form the essence of bigotry.
I sometimes use the analogy of a tongue feeling out a new surface in a mouth to describe how people develop familiarity. If you lose a tooth or have a wound in your mouth, your tongue will unconsciously and incessantly feel it out until the new surface has been adequately accounted for. From there you can speak, eat, and perform other delicate oral functions without the new surface throwing you off. When individuals meet for the first time we’re compelled to feel out each other’s character in a similar way. We’re trying to map the other and incorporate them into our model of self so that we can have a more intuitive and comfortable relationship.
The fewer areas that are out of bounds the more detail we can map and the more familiar a person can become. From a basis of familiarity, we start opening up to reciprocal behaviours and collaborate on complex goals. Human beings are remarkably cooperative and when individuals work toward a shared goal our differences have a way of naturally fading into the background.
Identitarians reframe many of our natural instincts as culturally conditioned biases that ought to be consciously suppressed. They flood out from elite academic institutions as accredited social “experts” with an unshakable conviction that they must re-engineer our social world. They find entry points into social domains through bureaucracies and try to control previously unsupervised areas of life.
This training video from the Medical University of South Carolina is a good example of how the Identitarians use their social “expertise” to mobilise agents of surveillance and control.
In the modern Western workplace, the kinds of colleagues we create private Slack channels to avoid are handed moral authority to police our behaviour. I propose that this kind of technocratic meddling has had a dire effect on real-world intimacy and tolerance between many different identity groups, and that we have a moral obligation to unwind the damage to reclaim our messy organic sociality.
The essence of bigotry is an inability to let simplistic negative categories go when confronted by the complexity of a real human being. Believing that people with certain identity markers are automatically victims, without considering their life experiences, lineage, financial status, or worldview, is a convoluted form of bigotry, but bigotry nonetheless. I have a West African friend who is literally royalty in her home country and she laughs about the way progressive Australians treat her. “It’s as if they think I escaped from poverty”, she said.
This bigotry is implicit in the expectation that we tip-toe around people from minority groups and apply a demented intersectional logic to our interactions. This isn’t to say we need to let our base instincts loose but to recognise there’s wisdom in our natural responses to social scenarios. Real human connection happens in the space between social protocols and you can’t engineer it.
Real-world familiarity looks nothing like the stilted social environments of the university faculty lounge that Peter sends up with his comedic parodies. Pete’s clumsy social instincts have earned him the reputation of a bigot in those settings, which is something you might believe if you looked at the world in a dissociated ideological way.
Perhaps this interview with Peter’s housemate Cindy can express what I mean here better than I can with text.


Beautifully said. I find it both amusing and despair-inducing when people try to read Pete through their cynical, self-conscious, political agenda-driven Culture Wars Map. This requires the assumption that Pete is also cynical and self-conscious and politically agenda-driven. The reality is that he doesn’t even have the basics of these that would enable him to protect himself from those who do.
Being friends with Pete is equal parts asking in resigned despair “What the hell are you doing now and why did you think it was a good idea?” and just loving him for his huge heart.
I get closest to conveying this to people when I say to stop trying to locate him in a political framework and start seeing him in a humanistic philosophical one. The reason Pete is doing anything he is doing is because he is interested in it & wants to understand it. The reason Pete is doing anything in any particular place and with any particular people is because that’s where and who will allow him to do it. But that’s the intellectual thing & doesn’t get at the human side. There, I generally just think that I will listen to people bashing Pete for alleged bigotry when they show me that they have taken into their own homes even a fraction of the struggling humans of all identities that Pete has found on his travels due to his intense interest in and compassion for other individual humans.
(I have now been way too nice about the man so I shall add that he is also a crazy-making lunatic and if he is ever found dead with a teaspoon embedded in his jugular, it will be because he “edited” something I wrote or offered me life coaching advice).
"if you looked at the world in a dissociated ideological way, where identity markers and words mean more than character and deeds." There is no better indicator of this disease than the comments in the New York Times and Washington Post where any questioning of or dissent with the identarian orthodoxy provokes instant deluges of baseless accusations of fascism, bigotry or worse.